recently, i meet this guy, he was a little bit drunk...
he kinna ask me
"do you drink?"
then i was like
"naaaaaaa, i dont drink"
"why"
"i cant, im a muslim"
then he was like
"ooooo maaaannnnn"
the moment he knew that i am actually a muslim, he was like bashing us with lots of arguments one after another *i was with my friend at the time, he meet this guy first, and i joined them a little bit later after that*
This guy hate muslim to the core im telling you. he argue about suicide boomer, oppression against women, freedom, osama bin laden.. bla bla bla... he is a good man seriously, the problems is not him... its us. well, some of us... okay, im gonna start typing malay cuz my english suck.
okay, masalah bukan die, tpi some of us muslim people... sbb, every fact, almost every fact that he knows about muslim is f**king bullshit! spread by the media... suicide boomer? that is not muslim... *okay, cakap english jugak...-____-"*
oppression against women? islam adalah agama yg pertama2 skali mengangkat maruah perempuan.
"and a woman is like a garment for her husband, and a man is like a garment for his wife" 2:187
*penerangan next post... malas! haha*
terang2 equality disitu..
"the best of men are those who are the best for their wives" riwayat imam al tarmizi
it was not hard explaining everything to him, islam doesnt teach us to commit suicide, thats taboo, you straight to hell if you do that, i dont know whether the suicide boomer is islam or not, but as far as i know, suicide is a big sin, i dont have enough knowledge about suicide boomer to talk about this in more details, islam doesnt oppress women, they are wearing that because they wanted to, because they choose to wear that, and thats not what we men order them to do, thats the order from God. osama bin laden IS NOT MUSLIM! at least not a real one. go find out.
after that, he said something that really struck me to the core
"maybe what you are saying is true *that every bad thing about muslim that he heard from the media is not true* but why none of you speak out about it?" *as if all those facts are true*
SEE, the problem is us, kiter slalu maen aci nyorok dengan DUNIA. maybe some people do speak out,but apparently those voices did not reach them, because not so many of us speak out. the voices are not loud enough to reach them.
aku tak suruh suma org islam klua buat public speak out, but just go out there and be MUSLIM. some of us, keep islam for ourself. the beauty of islam is not from the outside, its from the inside, its what we have in our heart, thats the true beauty of islam. well, people cant see the heart. how do you expect these people to see what is the real islam??
so, im begging you and myself,go out there, stop being exclusive, talk to them, know them, show them the moral and value that islam teach us, because that drunk guy actually really agree with me when i explained the teaching of islam to him.
we have a lot of arguments that night, im not trying to win those arguments, im 22, and he is 30 something, he knows about life more than i do, but i tried by best to explain everything. at some point, we just stop arguing with each other, and just have a normal conversation about life.
he said
"i believe in God. there must be a God. u know, im taking biology, and those little tiny cell, they dont have brain to think and do what they do, something makes them do what they do, u know.. the star, the solar system, the moon, the earth, they are in exact measurement! things cant just puff! and become something just like that... the universe was designed! it was created by something man. there must be a God!"
what he just said was beautiful i think. he was drunk. well, not that drunk to a point that i can actually say that he was drunk, but he was drinking before that. well, in this case, i thought he is more muslim than some of us, muslim. serious shame
then he said
"my son gonna grow up become a man with principle, he will be brought up to be a man with principle"
"and thats not an oppression?" i asked
"no, he been brought up to be like that, thats not an oppression"
"well thats same with me, ive been brought up by the principle of islam, those muslim girls had been brought up by the principle of islam, thats not oppression right? so muslim girls are not being oppressed, do you agree?"
"yes, i agree"
that night i made a friend
his name is Chris
he is 30 something *lupa sudah brapa umur dia*
he said im a good person *well the thing is, i was not talk about myself, i talked about my religion, the principle of islam, so what he actullay said is, islam is a good religion*
we had a long serious conversation
we had a couple of laugh
we talked about life
about religion
about science
about principle
about the world
about war
about girls *HAHAHAHA*
and it was nice
he was nice
his name is Chris
so korang, please, dakwah wajib, and priority adalah kepade org yg terdekat dgn kiter, but doesnt mean we can ignore others. just be friendly, stop being exclusive, talk to these people, make friend with them, and BE MUSLIM. you dont have to talk about islam with them, just be muslim, they will see through it. please im begging you and myself, because obviously you guys can do better than me, because you guys are better than me. Please, cuz these people dont know, and some of them wanna know.
"ada diantara kamu yang paling baik dalam jahiliah pada tika jahiliah, tetapi paling baik dalam islam setelah menjadi islam"
my deepest apologize for posting this post
sekain.. aku sengal