Keperluan untuk menegur seseorang secara terbuka

Aku mulai bebelan ini dengan satu contoh situasi :

Katakanlah aku membuat satu kenyataan kat status facebook aku, dan akibat kecuaian juga sedikitnye ilmu di dada, ade lah sedikit kesilapan dalam kenyataan tersebut.

Dan setelah dipublish, ada lah insan2 awesome yang like juga comment. Tapi, ade seorang member aku yang lebih awesome, dapat mengesan kesilapan dalam status facebook aku tersebut. Maka beliau mengambil ikhtiar untuk menasihati diri ini secara rahsia, dengan menulis message inbox kat aku.

Maka di sini aku telah sedar akan kesilapan aku. Tapi persoalannya di sini, bagaimana pula mereka yang membaca, like juga comment status tersebut? Kalau kesilapan tersebut adalah berkaitan hal yang tidak diketahui ramai, maka mereka yang membaca dan menerima status tersebut akan kekal di dalam kesesatan.

Adalah suatu yang sangat baik jikalau aku menerima nasihat tersebut, lalu memperbetulkannya pada ruangan comment atau menyebarkan tentang apa sebenarnya yang betul, tapi kalau aku tidak menerima nasihat tersebut, bukankah mereka yang lain sudah terlepas dari menerima kebenaran? Apakah ada jaminan yang setiap nasihat yang diberikan secara rahsia akan diumumkan pada khalayak ramai, supaya semua orang dapat tahu tentang apa yang betul dan apa yang salah? Apakah si pemberi nasihat dapat menghubungi setiap manusia yang membaca dan melihat kenyataan tersebut untuk diberikan juga kepada mereka nasihat yang sama?

Tak.

Tapi kalau nasihat itu ditulis di ruang comment, dilakukan secara public sejurus selepas kesalahan tersebut, maka orang ramai dapat membaca atau melihat nasihat tersebut, secara lansung tahu akan apa yang benar dan apa yang salah.

Benar nasihat perlu dilakukan secara rahsia, jika kesalahan itu adalah kesalahan specific dan tidak disebarkan ke khalayak ramai. Adalah lebih baik jikalau suatu kesalahan yang dilalukan secara public ditegur juga secara public, supaya si pelaku tahu tentang kesalahan beliau, dan si pemerhati tahu tentang apa yang salah.

Disini bukan tentang ingin memalukan mana-mana pihak, tapi ia berkenaan memperbetulkan mana yang salah dan menyebarkan apa yang betul. Adalah urusan Allaah tentang niat si penasihat sama ada beliau betul ikhlas memberi nasihat, atau ingin memalukan mana-mana pihak semata-mata.

Masalahnye, kiter dok sebok marah2 orang yang bagi nasihat dengan mempersoalkan niat mereka menyampaikan nasihat, yang dok terang2 buat salah, takde sape nak marah. -___-"

Betulkan aku kalau aku salah. :)

We Failed

I should have write this a long time ago, as it is related to certain issue.

Let me firstly present all of us with a hadith :

Anas Bin Maalik said:

While we were in the masjid with the Messenger of Allaah, a Bedouin came; he then urinated in the masjid.

The Companions of the Messenger of Allaah said, “Mah Mah (An expression used to severly scold someone, to indicate the graveness of a matter).”

The Messenger of Allaah said, “Do not put a halt to his urinating, but instead leave him.”

They left him alone until he finished urinating.

The Messenger of Allaah called him over and said to him, “Any kind of urine or filth is not suitable for these masjids. Instead they are only [appropriate] for the remembrance of Allaah, the Prayer, and the recitation of the Qur’aan,” or this is near to what the Messenger of Allaah said.

He (saw) then issued an order to a man from the people, who then came with a bucket of water, which he poured over the [effected] area [of the masjid].

[Related by Muslim in his Saheeh, 285]

Now, breaking down the facts

The prophet Muhammad s.a.w. clearly had a full authorities to punish this man for urinating in the mosque, yet he didn’t. Instead, he called upon him without any harshness and taught him what is wrong and what is right.

Referring what happen in Malaysia ; Nowadays, we had two non-Muslims eating pork while wishing happy eid to all muslims, we have a muslims girl playing with dogs whatsoever that she did, I don’t watch that video. All of a sudden we all went crazy cursing and condemning this people. Not a single person I’ve seen so far trying to reach them and give them a proper advice. All we do are fighting and debating with each other about should we punish, what to do and what not to do.

You know what I wish? What I really wish? I wish that Alvin and Vivian, and whoever makes any offensive video about Islam have at least ONE good Muslim friend that can advise them and show them what Islam is all about.

Look, I know it’s really annoying seeing all these people offense our religion. But the thing is, if they know how awesome, cool, peaceful Islam is, I don’t think they will do such action. The thing is they don’t know. Why? Because we don’t speak about it with them. We never talk about how good Islam is to these people. We keep it to ourselves. Worst, we never show how good Islam is. We as Muslim ourselves failed to be a muslim. This is our fault. When people insult Islam, we have no one to blame but ourselves. What are we doing? Fine those people? Punish them? Will that solves the problems? Did they know what they did wrong? Will that makes them stop? Will that makes others stop? And most of all, will that make them closer to Islam? Will that makes anyone closer to Islam?

Damn no!

Lets all go back to the teaching of the Prophet Muhammmad s.a.w. and try our best to take him as an example in our life.

I know I might be wrong, therefor correct me. But this is how I understand the hadith. And I don’t think the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w will agree to whatever we have done to these people if he’s still alive.

I have a lot of conversation with non-muslims and trying my best to explain to them what Islam is, and the common question that I got from them

"Why are muslims doing the opposite?"

That question just shut me, at least for a bit.

Lets all go back to the teaching of the Prophet Muhammmad s.a.w. and try our best to take him as an example in our life, and be a muslim. A real muslim. 

p.s Some opinion said that the Bedouin convert to Islam soon after.

source and further explanation about the hadith :
http://theauthenticbase.wordpress.com/2010/03/04/ther-bedouin-who-urinated-in-the-masjid/
http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=articles&id=76856

Nak Jadi Nelayan laaaahh!

Berikut adalah terjemahan (versi aku) kisah yang dipetik dari ceramah Syeikh Shady Al-Suleiman masjid Lakemba Sydney berkenaan 40 hadith imam nawawi. Tarikh juga Waktu adalah tidak diketahui, aku malas nak search. haha


Tersebutlah kisah seorang nelayan yang dikurniakan bakat memancing luar biasa dimana beliau kompom dapat ikan bila mana dia coba tangkap ikan. Tapi mamat berkenaan tiap2 hari hanya tangkap cukop2 untuk family kat umah, then jual untuk keperluan rumah yang lain.

Maka seorang teman nyew berasa mamat nelayan ni tidak ambik advantage of his talent (nah kau bahase melayu omputih campor habes) dan pergi berborak lah dengan beliau.

Teman nyew : Aku pelik kenape ko tangkap ikan ckop2 je untok keperluan ko ngn family, padahal ngan bakat ko, ko boley senang2 je tangkap lagi banyak ikan.

Nelayan : eeeeeeeeeerrrr..... okay, klu aku tangkap banyak2 then nak buat ape.

Teman nyew : Then ko boley jual ikan, dapat duet lebih.

Nelayan : eeeeeerrrr.... pastu?

Teman nyew : Then ko besarkan business ko, ade banyak pekerja.

Nelayan : eeerrrr.... pastu?

Teman nyew : Then ko boley lepak2 relax la....

Nelayan : But im already relax now????                                (ceh, tetibe ckp omputih)





Teman nyew : *chak! chak! chak!!*  (bunyik pisau tercocok kat ati)

KESIMPULAN!

Its easy to live, when you are being content. The story is just an example, for us to learn about being content with life.

Should a real situation exist, the guy should really take advantage of his talent. The key is to know what he want. If he want a happy and easy life, then forget about it, he already has that. Why would he face all those hardship just to get what he already has? But if he want to improve his family condition, help his society, then by all mean he should do his best.

We should know what we really want. At this moment, we probably working our asses off just to get whatever things we already have, but we dont see them, because we are all blind by the world and whatever in it.

Money dont make you happy, money dont make you rich. Your happiness and your richness are depend on the state of your very heart. 



Sekian sahaja bebelan tengah malam. aku pon suka duet jugak sebenarnye... so.... yeah.... shit, terase~! -_____-"

Wallaby bukanlah golongan Wahabi dari spesis Kangaroo

Korang tau tak ada spesis nama wallaby kat aussie. Macam kangaroo jugak, tapi kecik. Persamaan wallaby dengan kangaroo adalah diorang tak makan wassabi, sebab pedas.

Anyway, post ni takde kaitan ngn tajuk -___-"

Aku ade satu soklan untuk diri sendiri, and aku akan jawab soklan tu sendiri, so korang tak payah buat pape, korang bace je

"Kenapa aku mintak dalil?"

Aku budak architecture, tapi kitorang blaja jugak buat thesis segala, dgn nota kaki reference segala macam. Just pelik, kenapa bila blaja ilmu dunia, kita kalot buat reference, nota kaki suma, plus, korang tau tak klu kiter punye reference ade reference lain, kiter kene buat reference kepada reference yg kiter buat, nah kau punye glabah.

Tapi, bile bab ugama, mintak dalil, marah, mintak hadith, marah. Engkau wahabi, aku wahabi sume org wahabi. Wahabi pon tak tau mnatang apa suka nak sebut.

Tapi bila bab ugama, kiter maen suka sebut, kiter maen suka sebar, asal bunyik sedap, asal nampak baik, asal dapat sambutan, bantai buat, mana hadith mana dalil mana ayat quran entah kemane.

Bro, ilmu ugama ilmu serious, bukan bley maen sebut camtu je, kene ade reference,kene ade dalil. Kalu kiter serious dalam ilmu dunia, patut lagi serious dalam ilmu ugama.

SO! sbb tu la aku mintak dalil. Takda dalil, aku tak kata salah, aku KIV letak tepi dulu. :D

hanya pendapat, tetapi berdasarkan ilmu, salah silap mintak betulkan, mintak maap kalu aku poyo. HAHA

Ouh btw, ni ha wallaby!!

Yellow footed rock wallaby
http://www.australiangeographic.com.au

Nah kau!! ade reference gambau wa! haha

The Art of Goodness

Korang tau salah satu cara setan perangkap manusia buat dosa?

Diorang start hasut manusia dengan bende-bende kecik, then dari situ, diorang heret sikit2 ke bende lagi besar. Sebab tu most of the time, bende lagha akan lead to dosa kecik, then dosa kecik akan lead to dosa yg lebih besar.

But the thing is, it works both way. As much as bad thing is contagious, good thing as well pretty much contagious. Start buat benda baik with small little things. Its never wrong. In fact, it is the right thing to do, no matter how small it is.

Identify benda baik yg senang kiter nak buat, then start from there. For example, senyum (aku serious fail bab senyum ni) basuh pinggang, basun pinggan housemate, duit syiling yg belambak tu bawak la before klua umah kot bley bagi kat sesape dan byk lagi bende2 baik yg senang sgt nak buat, tapi kita malas, sebab kiter rase bende tu sgt kecik and tak buat pon takpe. Bile kiter nak buat bende baek, slalu nak cari yg besar.

Take it easy bro, something small with consistency is better than big thing tapi buat stahon skali. Aku tau aku fail bab buat bende baik nih, tak byk pon yg aku dah buat slame aku hidop, klu ade pon, niat entah btol entah idak, so these words are meant for me first. But then, hopefully, kiter bley start spread the goodness, no matter how small it is, and from there, work our way up to do something bigger.

It is never wrong to be a good guy. What's so cool about being a bad guy?? Seriously. -____-"

Spread the kindness people :D

Sorry bero, wa tersilap

Penah tak korang makan kat kedai makan, tetibe waiter tu kasi air salah. Korang order tea ais, die pegi kasi milo ais. Penah tak? Penah tak?

Aku penah dooooooo.... Banyak kali gak la, bile aku order fresh oren, diorang kasi horlicks. Aku pon tak tau macam mane fresh oren boley kait ngn horlicks, jauh bebeno bunyik nye... banyak kali lak tu aku mintak fresh oren, waiter2 yang berlainan kasi horlicks. Paham tak? Paham tak?

Tapi waiter2 ni baek, aku kater aku tak order horlicks, aku order fresh oren, so diorang pon mintak maap masok dalam buat fresh oren, tukar ngan horlicks.

3 tahon gak aku keje kat restorant kat adelaide, banyak kali jugak aku tersilap buat air. Tapi, tak pernah2 lagi customer mintak suroh aku buat air lain. Mintak air yang diorang btol order. Sumenyer redha dengan kesilapan aku.

Aku : Here you go, one ice milo"
Kastemer : eeeeeerrr...... but I ask for ice tea
Aku : Shit! OMG OMG OMG!! nak buat ape ni!!!*dalam hati* Really??!!! *Buat-buat tekezut berok*
I am sorry, I'll bring your ice tea in a moment... I am so sorry"
Kastemer : No! no! It's okay! I'll have ice milo!
Aku : Really?
Kastemer : Yeah, sure.

Bila piki balek, tak salah pon klu aku amek minom je horlicks yg waiter salah buat tuh, mudahkan keje die. Klu beza harga pon, takat lima posen je, takde nya aku rugi sampai tak makan anak bini seminggu.

So, terime kasihlah kastemer2 yang meredhai kesilapan2 aku, korang memang awesome. And sorry la waiter yg aku dah susahkan hidup korang kene pegi buat air baru kat aku.

The point is.......

It's never wrong to make other people's life easier, it's the right thing to do. No matter how simple it is, the right thing is still right, and it's never wrong to do it.

 


aku penah order air kat kedai mamak 'limau laici ais'. nah kau, agaknye tak penah diorder orang,blur mamat waiter tu dekat 5 saat jugak la. aku pon ckp "u letak limau, u letak laici, u letak ais, jadi la limau laici"

Gedik

Aku serious pening main flickr.... So dengan gedik nye aku buat blog baru, buat letak gambar2. ni ha die

http://notalightwritten.blogspot.com.au/ 

Pfffftttt...... blog lama pon stahon skali update, dok gedik buat blog baru.... 

Tak tau knapa aku letak gambar ni, jumpa kat tenet.